It’s your first time hanging out in this chat room with a bunch of other people. No one’s really paying attention to you. You’re trying to jump into the convo, but when you do, some folks throw nasty words your way. Kinda gets you feel disappointed, but you keep coming back, chatting anyway. After a few days, people start to notice you and you kind of get your own vibe in there. You’re like, “Wow, what did I do to get them to accept me?” Maybe it’s just hanging around, doing it again and again, or whatever— but suddenly, you’re in their space. Now you can follow what they’re talking about, join in, feel like your input matters, and you realize you’ve got a few people you can actually count on.

You ‘got work” to chat and found your place there .Earning follows that area.

Same chat room, years later, you’ve got close friends and all… then suddenly you say something nasty, and the roommates think it’s gross. They just ignore you and don’t care about how you feel. You feel super crushed and lost, but they don’t give a crap. It’s like you don’t exist, and everything keeps going without you.

You ‘got no work” to chat and have lost your place there .Earning stopped in that area.

You can name many things but there is indeed something beyond which we cant’ judge and put it into words.Maybe there is a master controller that recommended for your space in there first.So we seem to have a task to calm the master controller if we want to get back in there . What i’m saying now is too deep to think and comprehend.So you may just relax and pay attention to what calms you and try ways to calm others if you know how.